And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush.
Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. Hi everyone - like you all, I have been finding it hard dating my boyfriend who is a doctor. You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. Go for the joy, the experiences, the children to come. I stopped working after our 2nd child because his hours were so irregular and there was no predictability to his schedule. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion.
She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression. Will he possible convert just to make you happy without really buying into it.
But I believe, doctor or not, a relationship is all about supporting one another and making sacrifices. I met this girl a while ago and we really hit it off. That of course does not mean all eternal marriages should have been entered into or will succeed.