I understand you. I know exactly why you want this to happen. No big deal!
2. Ask your pal if they wanna have sex with you, as friends
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Barbecue sauce is to thank for my first friends-with-benefits situation. Why is it only chocolate sauce? If you are ever going to ask a woman to be your FWB in this exact same way, please be more specific than this guy was. But the text did open the door for us to fuck, which was the actual goal of the whole conversation. Up-front communication is key in a friends-with-benefits relationship, if only to prevent thornier conversations later. After the first time you fuck a friend, the next chance you get to talk to them while clothed, bring it up. No one wants to take on that information from a FWB. HOW Jokes are your friend here. The more playful and flirty you can be, the better.
1. Get clear about your hopes and dreams
It feels so good to be bad. If lovers can do it, why not friends? After all, friends do share everything lovers share, other than physical intimacy, right? You can turn to a friend to cheer you up, and hang out together to cure those boredom butt pains. As always. A friend can really help cheer you up in more ways than just a shoulder to cry on. If this friend is of the opposite sex and looks hot, that is. In these days of sexual relationships and one night stands, friendships too seem to dig in for a stake of lust and carnal desires.
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